Listen Up, Shut Up and…
Tuesday, May 6th, 2008…Sell More
Selling comes down to a verbal exchange between two people. Understanding what flows between two people is the best way to improve your selling results.
The single most important exchange of information takes place between the salesperson and the customer. This is where decisions are made that have the greatest impact on your company’s cash flow.
It’s pretty simple actually; it all comes down to talking and listening. Too many times the salesperson thinks that the talking part is most important. It makes no difference how smooth your delivery is if the reception is closed.
People think faster than they listen. If your customer is talking at a faster rate than you are listening, you may fail to hear some very important information. Salespeople, intent on making the sale sometimes start thinking about their responses before the customer finishes talking. Missing one key point from your customer could easily cost you a sale.
You will enjoy more selling success by concentrating more on what your customer is saying than what you want to say back. Listening when you want to talk can be difficult if it is not your habit.
Developing good listening skills is like establishing any other habit. Practice makes perfect, but you need to be certain that you are practicing the right way, not the wrong way. Practice this at home and in your social activities so that when you find yourself with a customer it will come more natural.
Keep your ego in your back pocket and let the customer talk. Your time will come, and when it does, your presentation will more likely be on target than if you jump in assuming that you know what the customer is about to say. Remember also that non verbal communication is revealing as well. Watch as you listen to pick up on small body language messages that can keep you in synch with your customer’s thinking.
And always remember that selling is for the customer more than you. Your customers are most likely to have what they buy from you much longer than you will have the money they give you.

