
“How Did You Know?”
A mainland client recently described her visit to 40 stores in Ala Moana Shopping Center. She told me that in the vast majority of stores the greeting was, “Hi, where are you visiting from?” And this is in a mall where 50% of the shoppers are local.

“Ole!”
When people travel somewhere, they try to do look like they are local to that place. Everyone likes to “fit in.” They look at how the locals dress and act, and then set out to look and act like they do.

“Me, a Tourist?”
When you ask, “Where are you from?” you run the risk of offending a local person and fail to flatter a visitor.

“Tourists? Not Us!”
Instead, ask, “Do you live around here?” I asked this couple recently if they live in Waikiki. They lit up, and the man proudly stated, “No, we are from Nigeria.” Sure, there were a few clues that they were visitors, but by overlooking them, and purposly mistaking them as locals created an instant bond.

Friends!
Asking people if they are local implies that locals shop in your store, thus creating added credibility, and says that you are not just a “tourist trap.” I complimented this couple on their great selection of Aloha wear and they were tickled. People who are traveling love to get to know someone who lives locally. It works. Try it!